He was kinda boring. He worked in an office and didn't really have his own interests. Or...whatever he did like was boring to me at the time, probably. We never really shared anything we both liked, he just went along with whatever I liked. I didn't really notice it until the year before he died, and by then I just...stopped talking to him about those kinda things as much. I know it's a normal part of growing up, all my friends told me they went through the same thing too, but when your dad just dies you start to feel guilty for thinking those kinda things.
[She doesn't know offices, and, well... her father didn't necessarily share her interests, but he did constantly have her back, doing anything in his power to protect her.
Another squeeze, thumb running along his in what she hopes is a comforting motion.]
I... don't really know what counts as boring in this world. [She understands broader concepts of things, but a lot of the aspects of daily life for the rest of humanity? The closest she'll get to that is through books or television, if it's something she can bear to watch.]
It sounds like you still have good memories, though.
So did my parents. ...Then again, I got in trouble a lot.
[Of the 'under threat of elimination' type.]
But... Even at your age, I was trying to get some space from my parents. When I was deciding where to work as an adult, I made my choice partially based on which place meant I wouldn't have to be under them anymore.
So... either at that age, or even now, I think it's normal if you didn't want to do everything with your family all the time.
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Just like... how it's normal to miss them when it turns out that means you don't get to see them, too.
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Could you... tell me a little bit about him?
Your father.
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Another squeeze, thumb running along his in what she hopes is a comforting motion.]
I... don't really know what counts as boring in this world. [She understands broader concepts of things, but a lot of the aspects of daily life for the rest of humanity? The closest she'll get to that is through books or television, if it's something she can bear to watch.]
It sounds like you still have good memories, though.
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...I hope that he wouldn't be disappointed in me, if he saw me now.
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[Of the 'under threat of elimination' type.]
But... Even at your age, I was trying to get some space from my parents. When I was deciding where to work as an adult, I made my choice partially based on which place meant I wouldn't have to be under them anymore.
So... either at that age, or even now, I think it's normal if you didn't want to do everything with your family all the time.
[...]
Just like... how it's normal to miss them when it turns out that means you don't get to see them, too.